Blacklight generally should work fine on Windows! There are a couple of caveats, in particular around the image optimizer tools.
You'll likely need working git ssh keys so the "bl module install" command can work. This can be challenging on Windows, but definitely doable. Google is your friend if you encounter difficult.
Use Chocolatey to get the following:
Use Cygwin to get:
Once that's done, configure local.json to point to folders like these: